Turning 20 is a very big deal in South Korea. It’s the celebration of the transition to adulthood, and this is considered an important step by the citizens. To mark this ceremony, they have a special event called the Coming of the Age Ceremony - Seongnyeon-ui Nal (성년의 날). 

This awesome tradition has a deep historical root in the Goryeo and Joseon dynasties. For boys, it was called “Gwallye” (관례), and it was carried out around fifteen to twenty years of age, where they wore an adult hat for the first time and changed their hairstyles. For ladies, it was called “Gyerye” (계례); they would tie their hair in a bun and wear a binyeo (hairpin) to show they were ready for marriage.

Back in those days, these ceremonies were serious and extremely important for the noble families because they showed their readiness to serve their country, take on the family responsibilities, and be respected as adults. However, in this modern age, things have taken a new turn. It is held yearly on the third Monday of May. The young men and women who have turned 20 in the Korean age are welcomed into adulthood, allowed to vote, can marry without parental permission, and take full responsibility in society.

It is a ceremony filled with pride, and the mode of celebration often depends on the person or group they belong to. Many of the celebrants wear modern clothes and join simple events with other celebrants, friends, or in schools. However, some still take part in the traditional ceremonies organized by cities or cultural groups where they wear Hanboks, bow to elders, and take part in rituals to preserve Korean history.

While celebrating the Coming of Age, three symbolic gifts are often shared, which are: Perfume or flowers to show the beauty and charm of a young adult, 20 roses to symbolize youth, love, and a fresh start, and a kiss from a loved one or friend to signify the start of adult relationships.

It’s refreshing to see that even though the world has changed a lot, South Koreans are still holding this prestigious ceremony in a redefined way. The aim to constantly remind the citizens transitioning into adults about becoming responsible and confident members of society is commendable. It gives them the chance to connect with the country’s history and keep old traditions alive in a modern way. To every celebrant turning into an adult, we sincerely congratulate you and wish you the best of adulthood.

Happy Coming of Age Ceremony!